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[CuriousOne]

On my path to Wicca, I studied MOST other religions.  I have 4 children and make it a point to teach them all I know about religions other than my own.  When they choose a religion for themselves I prefer them to be able to argue their point in a well educated manner and to be open-minded of others' preferences.   

Thank you for posting this. I have two children of my own, and i would like to find a way to educate them on various ideals without shoving one or the other onto them. I am happy to know I am not alone. perhaps I should invest in a "religion for dummies' book....

[naturalpaganmomma]

Having a list of references for kids is great. Thank you so much. Also, when I first discussed my change in spirituality with my husband and kids, both of my children expressed a desire to research other paths as well. My son has a tremendous interest in Greek gods and goddesses and is part of a small group at school who likes them too. I never would have known if I hadn't discussed my feelings with my family.

My little girl expressed a desire to explore the areas I want to, so she is doing that with me, and we are learning together.

I have already told them both that they can chose whatever spiritual path they wish. I am here to help them in any way I can. I never want them to go through the confusion I went through. So far their experiences have been positive. At times, even down right hilarious, but that's for another thread.

[searching]

Well my daughter isn't quite 2 years old yet so no religious discussions have taken place. Her experiences at the moment are just walks thru the park and neighborhood, feeling mom and dads love, etc...She is at an inhome daycare when I work at the moment. Next year I will likely put her in a Christian preschool. My sisters went there when they were younger and I like the place. I may not be Christian anymore but have nothing against her learning Bible stories especially at that young age when things are still fun and not pushy. It won't hurt her a bit to learn about Jonah and the Whale or to sing Jesus Loves Me. As she gets older I hope to find a non-religious private school like a Montessori or something of that nature to put her in. As children get older religious schools and churches can get pushy about you needing to believe in everything that they're telling you so I'd rather avoid that. I don't have a specific religion at the moment so my plan will just be to raise her to appreciate nature and the divine, to look after other people and animals as brothers and sisters, and so on. If she ever wants to go to church as she gets older I won't have a problem with it. We'll just see when we get to that point. I don't care if she wants to be Buddhist, Pagan, Christian, whatever...as long as she's happy.

[lucifer]

Why would you put your child into a Christian pre-school if you weren't a Christian? Do you want your child to think that you're going to hell because you don't go to church? Regardless of pushiness or not, the idea of teaching kids that misbehaving gets them permanently sent into a fiery pit (or into the abyss or whatever the popular representation is these days) is just rediculous.

Of course, this is just my opinion... Young and impressionable children shouldn't be taught to fear invisible monsters or to trust in invisible good-guys...

Speaking from personal experience, there is nothing good about the concept of a ``loving God'' that allows bad things to happen and doesn't step in to help us when we need it.

[searching]

They don't really go into things like hell at that young of an age.

[Scorched Eartha]

They don't really go into things like hell at that young of an age.

Bollocks they don't. My son was at a public primary school in NSW and he wanted to do Scripture. He was in 1st class so he was 6. I let him do it. I figured what the hell, I had no right to determine what direction his spirituality might take. He brought home a little bible. I even read the bugger to him.

Then about two terms into the thing he started getting a lot less enthusiastic about it all. He got all quiet and withdrawn and I asked him..."So waddup little dude...have you gone off the whole Jebus thing?" and he said "I dont like that scripture lady. She said you were going to hell for worshipping the devil."

I told took several deep breaths and when the red had receded a little from my eyes I said to him "You tell her that your mum said the only people headed for hell are toxic cows like her who try to frighten little kids with talk about sin and devils and lakes of fire in the hope of turning them against their parents."

So he did. And he told her he would never be coming back to scripture again after that.

 

[Draconis Rex]

OUTSTANDING! Se, A spirited little bugger, You gotta be proud of him for that

[oldghost]

Give him a cookie for me and a well done pat on the head. .

[Arnemetia]

I thought this thread could use a little  BUMP