Sorry, I don't agree with you Spirit. I was taught to love my fellow man. By doing kind things for them without expecting anything in return. This is being selfless and in the Christian belief... "God like".
If the person doing the act of kindness, or giving something to someone, believes they deserve something in return. That person is being selfish, and need to learn the lesson of giving with an open heart. For in giving of ones self is the only true way to know happiness and love.